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Latest Blog Posts

Quoted in The Wall Street Journal on Men In Couples Therapy

In some cases, by the time the wife asks the husband to go to therapy, she has been hard on him, labeling him as bad at opening up, or “emotionally impotent,” says Traci Ruble, a marriage and family therapist in San Francisco who specializes in helping men feel comfortable in therapy. “I don’t want to […]


Passion In Long Term Monogamous Relationships

If you are in a long term relationship that is monogamous, you may be dragging yourself through a long dry passion desert.  Read more on Digital Romance, by me.   Traci Ruble on Google+


Strength and Vulnerability Go Hand in Hand: Psychotherapy for First Timers

Being vulnerable is not the same as being exposed or weak.  For some people they are nervous about psychotherapy because they have some misconceptions about what vulnerability is.  This discussion is about what happens inside the therapy room and what it is like and what vulnerability is an antidote to. Traci Ruble on Google+